Friday, November 10, 2006

The Veggie Tale

This morning, as I was tending to Paul's eye, we prayed together for St. Raphael, Medicine from God, to pray for Paul's continued healing. We remembered the 2 other young men whose mothers have been so good to our family with sharing their love and support this past year. Gabriel is praying that he will walk again and Eric is prayerful about finding a job, given his physical limitations.

Somehow all this led me to share with Paul the story of how he woke up. I told him it was Thanksgiving night, after we had left. But we had left with an inkling that Paul had heard his brother Jon talking to him. Jon had put one earphone in Paul's ear, then placed the other one in his own. He played the music he and Paul had recorded together. He was reminding Paul of how they had worked through certain parts, or how many times that he had to re-record certain sections. Paul had brought his right arm up across his chest, like he was going to play his guitar. We all looked at each other.......Wide Eyed! Minutes later, Paul's eye fluttered a bit. There was no other indication he was going to possibly come out of his coma except when we gathered around his bed to pray before we left. He yawned a very big yawn. I said I didn't think people yawned while they were in a coma. But, what did I know and maybe I was just trying to see something that wasn't there. We left and did not say anything to the nurse. She told us the next day that at 11:00 PM, she was holding Paul's hand and asked him to squeeze it and he did. She knew he was coming to, but it was too late to call us.

At 6:30 the next morning, Paul was awake and responding to the doctor who had tried to first encourage us, then guilt us, into removing the respirator and let Paul die peacefully.

I was sharing this all with Paul this morning and when I was talking about Jon, he teared up and said that was so neat what Jon had done. Then I told him how we all became his advocate to keep the doctors moving forward in saving his life. I asked him, "And wasn't that so cool how it was the doctor who said you would be a vegetable at best if you did survive, is the one who found you awake?" Paul looked at me, smiled and said, "Yeah.............way to go vegetable farmer."

Another bit of Paul's humor to start my day.

John (12:24-26)

"Amen, Amen I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains just a grain of wheat;
but if it dies, it produces much fruit.
Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will
preserve it for eternal life.
Whoever serves me must follow me, and where I am, there also will my servant be.
The Father will honor whoever serves me."

May God lead us to do all we can to bring about His glory today.
Love,
Jon and Rebecca

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow!! What a rush of memories, tears and smiles as I relived the event through your words.

I was with Keith & Kelly for Thanksgiving a year ago. I was awakened with news from Atlanta, "PAUL IS AWAKE!" We celebrated all morning amongst ourselves, on the phone, on the computer and with neighbors as the incredible, joyous news flashed across the country on the wings of technology. We stared at each other with disbelief, relief, giddiness and a dawning awareness that God had begun to work His miracle - one that continues to this day.

Through the intervening year so many, many people have come to know and love God in a deeper way as they learend of God's great mercy poured out for Paul and all of us as answer to our heartfelt prayers.

Every day since No. 11, 2005 is a gift beyond measure for Paul. Let us join again in spirit on this Tahnksgiving Day anniversary to give our thanks and praise to God for His many miracles, large and small, granted in response to the prayers of family, friends and strangers.

Peace, Love and Thanksgiving from all our brothers and sisters in Christ - offered on bended knee,

UJ

Anonymous said...

Hi Rebecca,
I prayed for you at Mass today along with Beryl(from Buffalo) who is going to be giving her testimony at the very first meal of the Albany, NY chapter of Magnificat. I was filled with joy when I heard that you were the speaker in Atlanta. Both of our meals are on this anniversary celebration of the amazing grace in Paul's life and overflowing to so many. I want to get a copy of your tape. Off the subject, Marissa finalized plans for Austria. She will be travelling part of her return trip with Jon and Marie.
Love and blessings, Mary
The Lord is going to do wondrous things tomorrow in the women He is gathering.

Anonymous said...

Blessed be God. May you be filled with the Holy Spirit tomorrow. How I wish I was there, but you know I am in spirit.
Peace
MB

Anonymous said...

this has truly been an amazing journey. Rebecca, I know your speech will be great tomorrow. Good Luck and God Bless.

Anonymous said...

what a truly blessed day that was. Thanks for sharing and allowing us to remember that memory! It's hard to believe it's been a year. Paul has come so far, and so has your family! May God be praised!

Anonymous said...

Rebecca- your talk today was one of the most moving experiences of my life and i thank you so much for sharing your Magnificat. It was so nice to meet you in person and to see Paul there too. God bless you always.